As a young lady growing up i notice plenty of different men maltreating their wives,girlfriend,or however they chose to categorize them.It hurts because i have grown up in the same situation.Most times i would think women just choose to over react but right now i'm going through the same thing and it's no joke.I would say to myself "why don't she just leave this guy" but seeing for myself its difficult, it hurts imaging its your very first love that'ts abusing you not just physically but emotionally.Ladies need rights too and most women don't because of the relationship they're in.