Being with a narcissist isn't easy at all. I didn't know he was a narcissist until three years ago when my neighbor sent word for me to come see her that she needed to talk to me it's important. Well I walked to her trailer and that's when she told me what he was and she told me exactly what it was I've been dealing with. It helped me understand why he was acting the way he was and even tho I know it still doesn't matter when I'm still trapped and wondering when will the next discard is going to be . I been reading quora and finding answers on how to deal with the narcissist better and it still is a every day task. I've been lied to, cheated on, beat up with his fist , feet, and objects on numerous occasions. I've been put down, and made to believe I am crazy by him telling me I'm m�king things up or none of that happened and the narcissist shifts blame on me to make what he does to me look like im doing it to him. He loves attention from everyone and everything he does has to be perfect because others a see his work to brag about it. I've had to fight against him and others and you can't win an argument because he's always right. I've been in six nut houses and now I draw a ssi ck because I have CPTSD,PTSD,three types of ADHD,MDD, worst anxiety any doctor has ever seen and panic disorder, suicidal and homicidal. All this is caused by being with a narcissist.